A poor life this if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare
– W.H. Davies, Leisure

A little over a week ago, I closed down all of my social media accounts, with the exception of Twitter, which I locked. The explanation I gave was that, in an age when everyone and their dog is sharing every aspect of their life, being a digital recluse is the new “Internet famous”.

Since then, some people have criticized my logic – pointing out that if I really wanted to be a digital recluse then I’d close Twitter too. By drawing attention to myself for becoming a semi-hermit, am I not just trying to have my social media cake and eat it too?

Perhaps. The truth is that there were numerous reasons for me wanting to dial down my use of social media, but presenting numerous arguments in one column is the kiss of death to a columnist. The neo-narcissistic benefits of locking Twitter were what finally made my decision, and so that was the reason I gave. The others would keep.

This morning, though, Leo Laporte wrote a hugely revealing blog post and, in doing so, artfully proved the misquoted maxim that the medium is the message. In short: Laporte discovered last night that, due to a glitch in Google Buzz, several weeks of his updates had failed to reach either Buzz or Twitter. The kicker? Not one of his tens of thousands of followers had noticed, or cared.

Leo’s response was a vow to turn his attentions back to his blog – a place where people visit specifically to read about Leo, and where they email in the hundreds if he skips an update. By contrast, he argues, people on Twitter are so busy broadcasting their own updates that they’re unable or unwilling to listen to others’.

But, while I certainly agree with Leo’s reasoning for abandoning Buzz and going back to macro-blogging, it was another – almost throw-away – line in his post that chimed most loudly with me.

“I should have been posting [on his blog] all along. Had I been doing so I’d have something to show for it. A record of my life for the last few years at the very least. But I ignored my blog and ran off with the sexy, shiny microblogs.”

Reading that line, I instantly felt Leo’s pain. When I was researching my most recent book – which mainly focusses on the events of the past three years of my life – I spent several days going back through my blog archives, plus Twitter, Facebook, Flickr and the rest – to remind myself of details and events that may have been missing from my more traditional notes. What I found – or rather didn’t find – shocked me.

Throughout my earlier archives, I was able to find lengthy, sometimes surprisingly personal, posts – recounting the highs and lows of starting companies, making and losing friends, leaving London, beginning to travel around America and Europe… and countless other published episodes that backed up, and enhanced the contents of my private notebooks. But then, as I clicked forward through the archives to more recent years, something odd happened. At a certain point, the number of posts in each monthly archive dropped off a cliff, particularly where details of my personal life were concerned.

The reason, of course, was that I’d started to use Twitter for that kind of personal stuff. Unperturbed, I moved my research attentions away from my blog archives and over to my Twitter archives – and that’s when I started to panic: for all the dozens of updates I wrote each month, there was absolutely no substance to any of them.

“I am learning a lot about pens.” reads one update from last year. What does that even mean? “Ok, that’s quite enough of all this. I’m going out”, reads another. Enough of all what? And where was I going? Of course, the fact that I’m a particularly boring tweeter doesn’t help, but look at anyone’s Twitter account and it’s the same story – 140 characters simply doesn’t give enough depth or breadth to commit events, memories or feelings to the permanent record.

I’m one of the lucky ones: I hand-write a lot – and I mean a lot – of notes. Recalling personal experiences is what pays my rent so I have dozens of Moleskine books full of memories to look back on. I also have a similar number of published columns and a couple of memoirs to refer to if my recollection gets patchy.

Others aren’t so fortunate. A decade or so ago, a new generation who would previously have kept diaries instead started to set up blogs. Sure those blogs may have been twee or self-absorbed or clumsily written or emo or just plain boring – isn’t that the joy of a diary? – but they at least required the writer to take the time to process the events of their life, and the attendant emotions they generated – before putting finger to keyboard. The result, in many cases, was a detailed archive of events and memories that they can look back on now and say “that was how I was then”.

And then along came micro-blogging – and, with a finite amount of time and effort available, the blog generation turned into the Twitter (or Facebook) generation. A million blogs withered and died as their authors stopped taking the time to process their thoughts and switched instead to simply copying and pasting them into the world, 140 meaningless characters at a time. The result: a whole lot of sound and mundanity, signifying nothing.

To argue for a mass switch back from Tweeting to Livejournaling (or Bloggering, or Movable Typing…) in the interests of the permanent record is as ridiculous as campaigning for everyone to abandon instant messaging and return to letter-writing. The fact is people are busy (or lazy, depending on your view of humanity) and for the vast majority, immediacy will always trump posterity.

But for those of us who have had reason to look back at the past few years – like me writing my book, or Leo having “woken up to a bad social media dream in terms of the content I’ve put in others’ hands” – the realisation is slightly terrifying: by constantly micro-broadcasting everything, we’ve ended up macro-remembering almost nothing.

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I got pretty burned today, as did my oldest daughter. I’m hoping that it is just red and not going to peel…but that is the price of being in the sun too long. I did have fun swimming with the possible crocs in the lake. It is probably unlikely they would let people swim there constantly if they believed that their lake had a crocodile population in it, but still the idea of it freaks me out a bit. You can see by our photos that it didn’t stop us from swimming, apparently.

We take off for the airport tomorrow early, and will be back in Missouri by late morning. It has been fun, but I’ll enjoy being home again. Thanks for the fun, Florida!

Photos from today:
http://picasaweb.google.com/unconfused/20100717#

My favorite attraction at Universal Studios was The Simpsons ride, though I realize now that I didn’t take a photo of that attraction at all. It was a multimedia sort of ride, where you get in a rollercoaster car, but it just raises into a room with a huge screen that encompasses your field of vision, and the car moves with the action. It is fantastic though how well it convinces your body that you are actually moving. Great ride!

I’m looking forward to my ‘day off’ tomorrow where I get to just kick back by the pool and relax (i.e. no theme parks!)

Photos for the day are here:
http://picasaweb.google.com/unconfused/20100716#

You can see videos from today, or any of my others here:
http://www.youtube.com/user/unconfused

Day 3 here in Orlando was quite a bit more lazy than our previous two days since I’ve been here. We slept in, once we woke the kids did a t-shirt painting activity here at the clubhouse, and then once we had some lunch we got on the road for Honeymoon Island and Caladesi Island (click for map) which are both near Dunedin, FL just west of Tampa. I have a lot of videos for this blog entry.

Our first stop was Caladesi Island State Park, which is only accessible via boat. We took a ferry. It was nice to just lazily walk along the beach, look for shells, and have the waves rush in by your feet.

After the last ferry came back from Caladesi Island, we drove up Honeymoon Island to the north beach there had some dinner and enjoyed that beach. Of course the gulls wanted in on our food.

The ocean was beautiful here as well, and there were quite a few cool shells to be found here too. We’ll be bringing back quite a few!

We rushed to a clubhouse to change into dry clothes, and got caught by huge rainstorm. I took an opportunity to try to move the car closer while the rain seemed to let up a little, but instead as I was getting into the car the wind caught the car-door, and I got hit in the forehead by the corner of the door. So, now I have an interesting souvenir from our travels…a possible scar in the middle of my forehead.

We figured we would just have to make a dash to the car and take off, because the storm didn’t seem to be letting up. Sure enough…as we headed back into Dunedin the rain did lighten up significantly. Oh well. It was still a very nice day at the ocean.

Here is the link to today’s photos:
http://picasaweb.google.com/unconfused/20100715#

Universal Studios – Islands of Adventure and surrounding area

Of course everyone’s first destination was the Harry Potter area…but as we passed Poseidon’s Fury and rounded into the Jurassic Park area…we could see the line just to get into the Hogsmeade’s area…which was roughly 1/4-mile in length. We overheard one gentleman say that they were 7-hours from getting in!!! That was a bit discouraging at the time, though we couldn’t have known his estimate was not at all accurate. There was a long line nonetheless, so we didn’t get in it then, but moved on to enjoy the rest of the park.

My favorite areas were the Marvel Superheros area and Hogsmeade, which we did easily get into later in the day. The Marvel area had a great ride called The Amazing Adventures of Spider Man. It was 1/2 a ride, 1/2 a 3-D multimedia presentation…but excellent. In Hogsmeade we did the Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey ride (also 1/2 ride, 1/2 multimedia) and the Dueling Dragons rollercoaster. Both of these were also excellent.

While in Hogsmeade we had to try the butterbeer and the pumpkin-juice. It was pretty expensive, but was a nice part of the whole experience. And it made for a nice break to sit down and just rest. The whole Islands of Adventure park is a 1-mile loop, which was circled at least 5 times during the whole day. My feet hurt, needless to say. It was a fun day, but tiring…so I was glad to get back to the condo to shower and rest!

Link to all the pictures in today’s photo album:
http://picasaweb.google.com/unconfused/20100714#

Didn’t end up doing too much today…I painted a sand-dollar with the kids. It was fun….really….it really was.

After a little bit of dinner we set off to see Cocoa Beach. But we took off way too late and figured out that the sun would have set before we ended up getting there…so we nixed that idea and took a detour through the “Kissimmee Historic Downtown” where we found Pure Magic Ice Cream. Fantastic place and I definitely recommend their ice cream if you are here. Check out this video of them making our ice cream:

Tomorrow we head off to Islands Of Adventure!

update: forgot to add a link to this day’s photos –
http://picasaweb.google.com/unconfused/20100713#

I know that I’ve posted Research 2000′s poll concerning Republican voter.  I will, in light of this, retract my trust in that polling data.

Here is more on the issue from the Daily Kos:

• Research 2000: Problems in plain sight
• More on Research 2000

And BP is currently in charge of spill-cleanup in the Gulf of Mexico. See any problem there?

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So, this is a list of things that drivers should be aware of to help with the driving problem…not just here…but anywhere.

1. Understand right-of-way or priority at a stop-sign.  In the case of a stop-sign typically you give priority to the first person stopping at the intersection.  If two vehicles stop at the same time, yourself and a vehicle to your right…the person to your right has priority.  If two stop at the same time, yourself and a vehicle to your left…then you have priority.
2. Come to a complete stop at a stop-sign.  No rolling stops…or just slowing down.  Stop signs mean that you need to come to a complete stop regardless of other traffic or pedestrians at the intersection.  Coming to a complete stop also helps with understanding who has priority at the intersection.
3. Yielding on merging lanes is important to the flow of traffic on main trafficways.  If you cannot merge into traffic, then you need to yield to it.  Never force someone to slow the flow of traffic to let you squeeze in.
4. FOLLOW POSTED SPEED LIMITS.  That is a hugely important one…and not just for safely concerns, but also for the flow of traffic itself.  Most roads or trafficways will only accommodate so much traffic in the first place, and speeding almost always makes congested traffic worse.  This issue is the worst on roads with stop-lights every few blocks.  What happens is that a bunch of people speed in their vehicles to beat the next light and end up putting more cars in an area of road than it can accommodate effectively, so congestion occurs, which is what drivers (in their mind) were trying to avoid by speeding.  Speeding usually ends up being a counter-productive action…both in terms of safety to yourself and other drivers, but also for efficiently getting from location to location.
5. Don’t tailgate.  Follow the 3-second count rule between you and the vehicle in front of you.  Pick an object on the side of the road…like a telephone pole or a sign.  As the vehicle in front of you passes it, start counting (one-thousand one, one-thousand two, one-thousand three).  If you pass the object within that time, then you are too close.  Huge numbers of accidents are caused by people tailgating when the vehicle needs to stop suddenly and there isn’t enough space to react to that and also stop.
6. Stay in your own turning lane.  This might seem like an obvious rule, but nearly every day here I see people at intersections with designated lanes for turning turn into someone else’s lane, causing the other lanes to have to brake suddenly to not run into the stay driver.
7. If there is a single turning lane turning onto a road with multiple lanes, turn into the nearest lane.
8. USE TURN SIGNALS.  Another neglected, but very important communication tool in your vehicle.  This is important to tell other drivers where the heck you are going.
9. The turning lane on a street is NOT a merging lane.  If you cannot turn into a traffic lane on a street, it is NOT acceptable to turn left into the turning lane and accelerate to merge into traffic.  That is for people attempting to get out of traffic to turn off the street only.
10. At stop-signs and stop-lights there is typically a thick white line painted on the road.  This is the place where the front of your car should be stopped at.  I’ve seen people stop one and two car-lengths from the stop-line.  Likewise this is important not to pass just because you are turning from the stop…and wander into the pedestrian cross-walks.
11. When turning left at a green-light without an arrow, do NOT enter the intersection until you are able to safely make the turn.  If you are waiting for that opportunity, you are not to enter the intersection.
12. The shoulder of a road is NOT a turning lane.  Don’t use them as such.
13. Employ patience.  If you can’t drive 45 MPH on a road because the person ahead of you is only driving 40 MPH…that shouldn’t be a big deal.  You will only lose perhaps a portion of minute in the city from that little annoyance.  Get over it and just be patient.  Same with highway driving…as there have been numerous times when the road is two-lane at 60 MPH where I’m passed, though it was very dangerous to do so….and I end up right behind them in the next town on that road.  So, they endangered people around them for no gain to even their drive (obvious endangerment is only a detriment to everyone else too).

Anyone else have driving tips or annoyances they would like to share, along with the appropriate response to those issues?

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Unfortunately it is a private, corporate gig this time…so I can’t encourage anyone to come out and see us. But on May 15th, we’ll be playing a gig at Cartoons in Springfield, MO, so if you are interested in some fun funk, pop, and rock music. Come on out.